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Does she like me or the attention I give her? - 1/18/2010 1:54:05 AM
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Rambo1799
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Recently I read the article in the single's section on 9 lies men tell themselves about women. The first one listed is she flirts with me because she thinks I'm great. Basically it says that women flirt because they want attention, not because they like you. This was a rough lesson for me. What I would like to know is, how can I tell whether or not a girl likes me or she just likes the attention I give her?
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RE: Does she like me or the attention I give her? - 1/18/2010 4:26:50 AM
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Dakotasunbeam
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Ask her out. If she says no, she's just a flirt. If she says yes, well, BINGO, you've got your answer. 
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RE: Does she like me or the attention I give her? - 1/18/2010 7:20:35 AM
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herestoresmysoul
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I think that if a woman is flirting with you and only you, then she is probably imterested, but if she flirts with other men all the time then she has a problem and I would keep well away.
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RE: Does she like me or the attention I give her? - 1/18/2010 10:26:39 AM
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ORIGINAL: herestoresmysoul
I think that if a woman is flirting with you and only you, then she is probably imterested, but if she flirts with other men all the time then she has a problem and I would keep well away.
I agree with HeRestoresMySoul and DakotaSunbeam. A woman could be giving you an invitation, or she might be exercising the power a woman feels to lead guys around by the nose (or worse) and you could be just one more conquest and another notch on her gun. If I were a guy, that would really tick me off - it's selfish, exploitive and ugly, even if wrapped in the guise of a pretty woman.
And why would a stranger flirt with you with good motives? She doesn't know you, and she's taking the lead with the relationship.
I think either kind of woman is going to hurt you in the end.
Get your church to sponsor a bunch of people to go to a third world country and help some poor Christians there, and you'll get to know the single women on your team really well (dirty hair, poor sanitation, poor food and bugs and all) and then pick one of those who doesn't melt down to pursue. She'll get to see your sterling character there, too. 
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RE: Does she like me or the attention I give her? - 1/18/2010 12:39:17 PM
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Elena1030
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Some women are playful with men. I can be that way and it's just being friendly. I'm not really flirting. But some might interpret it that way. (Sometimes guys read into a gal's behavior what they want to be there.)
But if I'm really interested in a guy, then he's gonna be the only one I truly "flirt" with, in the sense of signaling my interest.
I don't think I flirt in general, just to get male attention from whoever will give it.
So... there are lots of reasons why a woman will be playful, be really friendly, or flirt. And the differences among these labels really are subtle.
The article gives good warnings, but just b/c some women are insincere... that doesn't mean that all of them are.
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RE: Does she like me or the attention I give her? - 1/18/2010 2:29:05 PM
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car2ner
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Like Elena said, not all gals are flirting, sometimes they are just friendly. It is also exciting and fun to flirt a little bit. Big time flirts should be avoided. It is more of a game of conquest. A gal who seriously likes you will show concern for you and will be helpful and charming in a way that doesn't expect something like movie tickets, a free drink, dinner, etc. in return for it.
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RE: Does she like me or the attention I give her? - 1/18/2010 9:58:35 PM
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BugLady
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What I would like to know is, how can I tell whether or not a girl likes me or she just likes the attention I give her?
If you suspect she only enjoys the attention, stop giving it and see how she reacts.
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RE: Does she like me or the attention I give her? - 2/8/2010 2:21:34 AM
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ebony101
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It all depends on how you define and interpret the word flirting.
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RE: Does she like me or the attention I give her? - 3/9/2010 4:45:53 AM
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serasvictoria
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ditto to elena1020
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RE: Does she like me or the attention I give her? - 3/23/2010 2:11:00 AM
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far_horizon
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Call her for dates to confirm if she likes you or just the attention. If she accepts your invitation, it's most probably she likes you. A girl who only likes your attention do not always respond positively to your invitation.
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